Tuesday, April 28, 2009

The army of the powerless -- dedicated with love to all the haters :-)

I am just back from an acupuncture session, and wow did that jumpstart my vibe! I am feeling a zillion times better thank you very much.

Well, it's been a while since we had A Course in Miracles moment, but clearly it's time for some healing in this community. We've got a lot of gurus who are no longer talking to each other. We've got a lot of people reacting to each other, myself included. We've got a lot of hurt feelings going around, and guess where they originated? From all the hating.

So it's time for some ACIM.

Why do people hate? Because they think it makes them powerful. They feel powerless, and it gives them some semblance of a feeling of control over the world. In truth, though, hate is a lack of power. Someone far wiser than me put it this way:

Frantic and loud and strong the dark ones seem to be. Yet they know not their "enemy," except they hate him. In hatred they have come together, but have not joined each other. For had they done so hatred would be impossible. The army of the powerless must be disbanded in the presence of strength. Those who are strong are never treacherous, because they have no need to dream of power and to act out their dream. ... This is no army, but a madhouse. What seems to be a planned attack is bedlam.

The army of the powerless is weak indeed. It has no weapons and it has no enemy. Yes, it can overrun the world and seek an enemy. But it can never find what is not there. Yes, it can dream it found an enemy, but this will shift even as it attacks, so that it runs at once to find another, and never comes to rest in victory. And as it runs it turns against itself, thinking it caught a glimpse of the great enemy who always eludes its murderous attack by turning into something else. How treacherous does this enemy appear, who changes so it is impossible even to recognize him.

Yet hate must have a target. There can be no faith in sin without an enemy. Who that believes in sin would dare believe he has no enemy? Could he admit that no one made him powerless? Reason would surely bid him seek no longer what is not there to find. Yet first he must be willing to perceive a world where it is not. It is not necessary that he understand how he can see it. Nor should he try. For if he focuses on what he cannot understand, he will but emphasize his helplessness, and let sin tell him that his enemy must be himself. But let him only ask himself these questions, which he must decide, to have it done for him:

Do I desire a world I rule instead of one that rules me?

Do I desire a world where I am powerful instead of helpless?

Do I desire a world in which I have no enemies and cannot sin?

And do I want to see what I denied because it is the truth?

http://acim.home.att.net/text-21-08.html

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The truth is that the only person we can hate is ourself.

The only person we can attack or criticize is ourself.

The enemy is always ourself.

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It was way more fun when we were all friends.

We are far more powerful as a team.

So let's forgive each other and let bygones be bygones.

9 comments:

Anonymous said...

What happened to your taking a break? I was looking forward to not having to read the dribble...

Anonymous said...

Questions:
Disarming, surrendering our own inner weapons?
A new source of protection?
Regaining the "self" as the friend first?
Presence?

xoxo

BenPaul said...

Have a good day.

if a country is governed with tolerance
the people are comfortable and honest
if a country is governed with repression
the people are depressed and crafty

when the will to power is in charge
the higher the ideals, the lower the results
try to make people happy
and you lay the groundwork for misery
try to make people moral
and you lay the groundwork for vice

thus the master is content
to serve as an example
and not to impose her will
she is pointed, but doesn't pierce
straightforward, but supple
radiant, but easy on the eyes

Erika said...

Anonymous #1,

I'm very glad to be the blog you love to hate. It's still love, any way you slice it, so thanks for continuing to be a devoted reader :-)

Anonymous said...

I'd like to copy and share Ben Paul's quote from above, if that's okay... as I look into the life of Barack & Michele Obama... I see such contentment... how can that be possible?

A female I've known as a friend recently said to me, "oh, he and I are using each other to get to another place... and that's what friends do, they "use" each other..."

my first reaction was to hate her... because she knows she used him in a way while we were friends that was not what I would have wanted... did it hurt? not like I thought it would... I did feel a hatred though... but I don't hate her... or even him anymore... Compassion is there as I write about it... and, I hate myself for staying close enough to that situation that:

1. I gave the subcommunication that being lied to by him was okay (who else is going to get that message as long as I am giving it to one person... I'm probably giving it to someone else)
2.That being a passive participant in a lifestyle that is not loving myself, is not respecting myself, is okay
3. that left the door open for them to be only who they are, meaning, I took my own chances
4. That reminded me that there is a big difference in loving someone and using someone.

Love is not simply tolerance. To love is to embrace... Tolerance is like a lubricant to give room to work things out. Do I embrace them in their choices?

No.

What does that tell me?

I'm not loving?

No.

It tells me I have respect for what it means to me to love and be loved.

This is not it.

I can also say... the hatred I feel is also towards the many years I've spent trying to make it so that sex was the pathway to love.

Love is the pathway to love.

Sex will take care of itself...

SO, where do I place my feelings towards her? About the situation?

Gratitude and non attachment... And a gracious no thank you to hanging out there.

Live and let live? Sure... hatred only hurts the one hating... contentment arises when I give myself what I really want... which is inner strength, clarity to only put myself in situations where the love I have to share is fully welcomed... and my virtues and values are shared... shared purpose... otherwise, any pain I experience is just my gift to myself...

It's one of those cases where, I'll wave my hand from far away and say, I'll be loving you from over here!

And, I have to say... that's how I am beginning to experience the entire Pick Up Game...

It isn't really what I want... and I respect my time here... I've learned a lot about how to spot my weaknesses for men who are great at seducing me and not much else comes of the interaction... that alone has been a huge gift! I've learned a lot about seduction... seduction is not love, either... it's a good spice to add to loving each other... but it's not the main course.

I also learned to watch the dating environment... to pay close attention to how trusting I am with strangers... and how trusting I am in stages of relating... I also have become committed to myself to not be sexual without commitment, without the commitment I really know will serve me and the relationship... I've released a lot of layers... I've gotten to see the "sex for sale" thing up close... and have come to my authentic decision about sacredness, privacy, intention, acceptance of many paths, many ways to be with it all in our world... and have come home to my heart... my heart knows what's best for me...

I'll trust that... and that's all I'll trust...

Love,
~Gayla

Anonymous said...

so does entropy get back on the blog roll?

Anonymous said...

i sense an ulterior motive here....an attempt to restore equity to your brand.

it's not gonna work. most of us are smarter than that.

Erika said...

@ Anonymous 4:47 pm:

"My brothers in salvation, do not fail to hear my voice and listen to my words. I ask for nothing but your own release. There is no place for hell within a world whose loveliness can yet be so intense and so inclusive it is but a step from there to Heaven. To your tired eyes I bring a vision of a different world, so new and clean and fresh you will forget the pain and sorrow that you saw before. Yet this a vision is which you must share with everyone you see, for otherwise you will behold it not. To give this gift is how to make it yours. And God ordained, in loving kindness, that it be for you.

"Let us be glad that we can walk the world, and find so many chances to perceive another situation where God's gift can once again be recognized as ours! And thus will all the vestiges of hell, the secret sins and hidden hates be gone. And all the loveliness which they concealed appear like lawns of Heaven to our sight, to lift us high above the thorny roads we travelled on before the Christ appeared. Hear me, my brothers, hear and join with me. God has ordained I cannot call in vain, and in His certainty I rest content. For you will hear, and you will choose again. And in this choice is everyone made free."

http://acim.home.att.net/text-31-08.html

Erika said...

Anonymous #1,

It's not "dribble," it's "drivel."

If nothing else, we're going to teach you English on this blog ;-)