I've written about my ideal relationship on this blog before.
Here's something I've noticed lately. If I'm feeling really connected and safe with a guy, then the idea of him being with other women actually turns me on! It seems exciting and interesting and a way for me to connect more deeply with him.
Whereas, if I start to feel less connected or fearful, then the idea of it is horrifying, and I don't want to hear about it, and I kinda shut down.
So I'm really curious what other people's experiences have been with this ... please share by commenting. Thank you!