This is one of my pet-peeve issues, one of the biggest bullshit lines that guys say to women to get them in to bed, so I feel compelled to address it. Someone suggested on an earlier thread that, if a guy doesn't have sex with a girl prior to committing to her, he may run the risk that she won't be good in bed.
Gone Savage left this comment, and thank God, because I rarely hear guys in the community owning up to this:
>>>"what if SHE sucks in bed after I commit to her?"
I used to think this way. After you get a couple hundred notches on your belt, you'll know if woman is expressive/enthusuastic/good before you've penetrated. It's just not at issue -- you know.
So true, GS.
And let me just say, as a woman with a pretty low "number," it *really* does not require 200 notches to know this. I have NEVER once not been able to tell whether the sex would be good BEFORE having sex.
I can tell by the kissing, by the foreplay, and by the level of connection.
Please, guys, stop using this excuse. It's complete and utter bullshit.