This evening I am curled up on my sofa drinking a glass of Sauvignon Blanc and writing a little blog entry before Matrix Guy arrives to my apartment. I am feeling very frisky because I just finished watching Twilight for the first time. And now Matrix Guy is going to come over and we're going to watch either Nights in Rodanthe or Vicky Christina Barcelona.
Now remember ... I set an intention to amp my sexual desire as high as it can possibly go ... without consummating it.
GS has valiantly decided to help me in this endeavor, by sending me text messages like this one:
"Huge thunderstorm. Power is out. Completely dark. Senses awaken. Silent except for the rhythmic pounding of the rain & thunder. I think of you... just great :-p"
And as if that wasn't enough, then he said this:
"Got me thinking naughty again... about the kind of juicy experiences you will remember forever. To open you, to claim you, to bring you delirious orgasms."
Speaking of GS ...
so just what is it about Edward the Vampire that has the entire community talking about how sexy he is? Rori wrote about him. Eight wrote about him. I sat here on the couch feeling my heart race watching the movie, slowly lighting up into full-on arousal.
I posted on Facebook that I was watching the movie, and immediately two different women responded.
The first one said: "OHHH... Believe me... HE IS... You wont forget the way he looks at her for days afterward.. wishing you had your own vampire to look at you like that. !!!!!!!! arrrrr..."
The second one said: "yup, every woman wants a man to WANT her like that."
So it's pretty much unanimous. Edward the Vampire is the hottest man since Pierce Brosnan in The Thomas Crown Affair.
Now, I'm not going to get into all the dynamics of push-pull section. Eight already did a fine, fine job of that in his article.
Edward gets things warmed up with push-pull, push-pull. That's how she knows his strength. Only a man whose core is rock solid can execute authentic push-pull. A weaker man will lose his frame and collapse. So that's how he first pulls her in to him and gets her interest.
But how is it that he wins her heart so fully and completely that she could never be stolen away by another guy?
He claims her.
He makes it obvious that she is The One. He doesn't have eyes for any other woman. He's willing to do anything for her. He protects her. He gives to her. He invites her into his home and his life. He desires her fully and completely.
As Eight says, after a certain point, it's almost all pull. Pull Pull Pull Pull Pull.
Why is that so important?
Trust. A woman can only give her heart completely and make herself fully vulnerable to a man she can rely on completely.
This is why she will test and test and test. She will put her toe out and see if it lands on solid ground. If it does not, she will pull back.
This is why a man must KNOW what he wants, must not pussy-foot around, and must have inner strength beyond the wildest imagination of most men in order to win the woman of his dreams.
A feminine woman doesn't chase men. She waits until a man shows up who has that strength and that singleness of desire for her. It cannot be faked. Every other man will fall by the wayside.
You heard it here first.
May the best man win. :-)