1. In Field EFT: Tonight I coached two guys in field using EFT. Good stuff. I love how by the end of one of these tapping-in-public sessions, we move into this trance-like space. It's as if the entire venue has slowed down, everything in slow motion, space between the thoughts, where there was only chatter before. And of course by then the guy has stopped caring what anyone thinks about him and is merrily tapping on his own head in public. This I love, because in this moment is the realization -- even if only subconsciously -- that humiliation is impossible when we stop caring what anyone thinks. (Read that sentence again - it's profound. :-)
2. PUA Summit. Who is going to PUA Summit ? If you are going and would like to share a hotel room with me and my girlfriend, then please email me at firstname.lastname@example.org. Is she hot? Of course. I have a thing for hot Eastern European women, especially ones who have a wonderful mischievous vibe. What can I say?
3. Burning Man.
As I mentioned before, I'll be teaching a free two-hour workshop at Evolutionary Temple, near Center Camp, on Friday, Sept. 4, from 6-8 pm.
Now, as a testament to how powerful EFT is, a couple of months ago, I tapped on "only want to go to Burning Man if I'm going with a guy." I did this because last year I went by myself, and although I had an amazing time and met a whole bunch of NEW guys, this year I wanted a different experience. I wanted to go WITH a guy. Or I didn't want to go at all. But I had signed up for Burning Man, and my partner for the trip had not materialized.
Until today. When a guy I met about a year ago suggested we go together and spend a romantic night in Reno on the way.
Whoa Nellie. Be careful what you ask for because you just might get it.
There was a long texting pause (on my end). He said he sensed my hesitation. He was cool about it but wanted to know what my reservations were.
And as I simmered with it today, I realized that my reservations are mostly the shadows of past hesitations, like empty shells with the content long gone.
"But I don't want to have sex. I'm not having sex."
Those words came up, and I realized they had lost a lot of their power. I used to say them so powerfully, and now they sound kinda like ... I don't know ... like that was a story I told myself somewhere along the way in a time I can't put myself into anymore.
This is how EFT heals. It takes all the oomph out of our negatively charged stories. Then they collapse by themselves.
(But don't go getting any ideas, Burning Man Guy. Lol. I'm STILL not having sex with you.)
It just feels softer now than it used to, when I say that.