Here is another testimonial:
I just had a session with Erika, and let me tell you, as someone who has listened to so many "pick up gurus" bullshit, that the guidance that Erika is offering is currently the best out there. No one in the community, really knows how to change one's belief system. Do you believe a few pick up lines and routines, can compensate for a wounded soul? I certainly tried, with no success at all. You have to release your internal conflict and trauma, and Erika is the best person to help you do that.
I was first a bit skeptical, to be truthful, about anyone's ability to find the core reasons for my problems with dating and relationships. Erika helped me remember meaningful experiences in my childhood, and even gave me tips for doing it myself. I highly recommend you take sessions with her, you can't possibly be disappointed. I'd like to thank Erika for her professionalism and her honest wish to help other people.
Also, more realizations from stepping back and going on strike:
1. I was not congruent with the old coaching rates because they were too low for what I'm offering and to meet my own needs. If guys can pay $3000 for a one-weekend LoveSystems bootcamp, they can surely pay my relatively modest rates to achieve real and lasting transformation of their lives. Thus, my inner self was rebelling. One of the great lessons in life is that no situation will be peaceful unless the needs of both people involved are being met, that is why I teach people to be always in touch with their own needs first. This way when we give, we are giving from a place of wholeness and joy, rather than obligation.
2. I was not congruent with the old coaching structure because the more people I worked with, the more I realized that people are needing more than just one session or even three sessions focused on a particular issue. The particular issues that people have been coming to me with are really a symptom and reflection of much deeper "inner game" or "life alignment" issues. Also, what shows up as a "dating" issue turns out to be affecting other areas of their lives, such as why they are staying in a financial situation that feels miserable to them, why they feel powerless to get out of their comfort zone and pursue their life passion instead of "whatever pays the bills." Thus, people need a lot more support than they receive from a few sessions. Under the new structure of coaching options, everyone I work with past the first session will be receiving the continuing spiritual support that they need to make these dramatic and lasting improvements to their lives.
3. I realized that a big part of my purpose here is to train other coaches in my rapid life transformation methodology, which produces faster real world results than any other methodology I've seen (and I've experimented a lot). I've had a large number of coaches send emails asking me to share my coaching knowledge with them. I'm happy to do that, and I've also realized that training them is not a conversation over lunch. The depth of knowledge that each of my Emotional Freedom Technique sessions is built on is pretty enormous. So I will happily accept other coaches into my coaching program, with the intention of enhancing their lives in the places they want to enhance, but with the larger goal of training them in how to do what I do with their own clients.