Building sexual tension ...

Oooooohh, I am feeling very excited ...

Things are about to get even sexier around here.

And Sinn said tapping wouldn't lead to sex.

Just wait until you all see what we are releasing tonight :)

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Interlude

I've been pretty quiet on the blog lately cuz I'm busy with developing new material, expanding my own comfort zone, exploring deeper levels of emotional intimacy, and working with private clients.

Oh ... and having sex too :)

But not to worry ... I'll be back with articles and video content soon enough, and it's going to be more fun than ever.

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Thanks, as always, for your support. With your help, what started as a humble little grassroots seduction and spirituality blog is eventually going to reach millions of people and help transform the world.

Learn seduction from a world master this week only in San Francisco

For my San Francisco readers (or anyone who can travel here forthwith):

If you have been wanting to learn how to seduce a woman from a true master of the craft, this is your week. One of the guys staying with me is a seduction genius, and he has time to do one (and only one) one-on-one in person intensive training program with a guy this week.

To give you an idea of how much this guy can teach you about presence and body language (for starters), let me tell you what happened when we were in Vegas. Two beautiful female porn stars (from the Got Ass girls) had been recruited to help teach the men in Johnny Soporno's workshop how to attract women. Hristiyan asked them to look around the entire room full of men to pick out the man for whom they felt the most instant attraction, before he even opened his mouth. One of the two women immediately said she felt the most instant attraction to this guy ... who you can train with this week, and this week only, in San Francisco.

This is a man who consistently seduces the girl he wants in short-term situations, and is also very solid with longer term relationships.

If you're interested in having him teach you his secrets this week in San Francisco, email me at erika.awakening@gmail.com.

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Ok, I'm out of time right now ... more news soon ...

Anonymous Text Messages?

I was just at dinner with Hristiyan, Mike, and John Litchenberg. Needed to rush back home for a session. Just about here when my first ever anonymous text comes in, saying

'I trust you're ready for one wild weekend.'

Threesome Guy and I are going to Tahoe this weekend. I have no idea who sent that message.

But I'm very wet :)

Bliss :)

I feel so happy, so delighted, so peaceful.

I'm sitting in a restaurant in Nob Hill where E. and I had dinner when he was here and noticing that I only have good memories left now. Hooray!

So many people in this world are still walking around thinking they are separate from the world around them and must adjust to it if they are to find any happiness at all.

I walk around the world knowing I am One with it, and that it has no choice but to adjust to me :)

Feeling very excited for the arrival of my new biz partner, and we are starting off our time together by checking out one of John Litchenberg's programs. Oh, yes :)

Every day it gets better and better. When my threesome joins me in San Francisco, I feel elated :)

perhaps it's time for bangfest to begin after all.

Step out of the Matrix. Reclaim your power.

It's time to Awaken from the Dream.

Lol :-p

I really should have threesomes more often ... ;)

Back from Vegas. Feeling exhausted but very happy :)

This article is all about manifesting our hearts' desires through congruent intention, and as my loyal readers know, I've never found a more powerful way of achieving congruent intention than EFT.

Ever hear the mantra "Have a threesome, gain a new business partner"? Yeah, I hadn't either. But it turns out that if you are Erika A., the mantra is true, true indeed.

Recently, I've been writing about a few of my heart's desires, which include
(1) exploring polyamorous relationships, and
(2) manifesting the perfect fit for a marketing and technical partner.

I have been systematically erasing my limiting beliefs using EFT, thus summoning the Genie of the Universe to bring me what I really want.

I have also been systematically clarifying my vision of what I want, because the Genie of the Universe can only give us what we want if we give him really clear instructions.

Just a week ago, for example, I described in detail to one of my mentors exactly what I had been waiting for marketing-wise. I wanted someone who has already done the marketing thing in this industry successfully, who would do most of the technical and copywriting, and who would interview me to learn my vision, then help me implement it all step by step. Basically holding my hand the entire time. A lot of people told me it was too much to ask.

Similarly, I have become more and more convinced that a permanently committed poly relationship is indeed my heart's desire. So I've been wanting to explore this more.

Well, lo and behold, after all this clearing and clarifying, I felt a major shift over New Year's, and moved into this deep state of acceptance of the moment exactly as it is. (Maybe it was all the Holosync gamma compassion meditation I've been doing lately.) When I felt this shift into total acceptance, I knew something big would happen soon. I knew I was due for a miracle.

Fast forward a week from New Year's. For the past four days, a large group of us have been attending Johnny Soporno's Vegas workshop.

Leave it to the brilliance of the Genie of the Universe to come up with something this marvelous: both my desires at the same time :)

Not only did I get to spend a lot of time with several people whose versions of polyamory I admire a lot, including Johnny, Terrance Thames, and John Litchenberg.

Not only did I get to attend the Ultimate After Party, a beautiful play party and a microcosm of what the world can and will be when sexual shame has been erased ...

Not only did I have the most awesome-est sexy roommate (the woman who braved White Tiger Tantra a year ago, and continues to inspire me with her boldness) ...

But also, I got to have my own *very* sexy threesome :)

(The only thing that breaks my heart about it is that it was SO seamless that I cannot for the life of me remember how we got from the living room to the bedroom. As a teacher, I pride myself on being able to share these details with you, and this one was so organic and natural that, well, it "just happened." Lol :-p)

Anyway, it gets better. The day after said threesome, out of the blue, one of my threesome partners and I got to talking business ... and it looks like he IS my new business partner. He fits the description of what I had described to my mentor a week ago EXACTLY. We were brainstorming for hours, and I have not been so excited about an industry conversation in a *very* long time.

He's now coming to San Francisco in a few days to help make this dream a reality. Starting with my very first official video product, an introductory guide to using EFT to manifest YOUR heart's desires.

What can I say? Sometimes it pays to be very, very naughty.

Why do I have such a strong feeling that it only gets more and more amazing from here?

:)

Erika had some awakening last night

It was quite lovely, thank you :)

Rewriting the Frog and Scorpion Story

This morning I received a comment on the last post:

Erika here is a fable that reminds me of what happened between you and E. I think it reaches farther than that to all PUAs and potential PUAS.

A Scorpion wants to cross a river, but he can't swim. He goes to the frog, who can, and asks for a ride. Frog says, "If I give you a ride on my back, you'll go and sting me." Scorpion replies, "It would not be in my interest to sting you since as I'll be on your back we both would drown."

Frog thinks about this logic for a while and accepts the deal. He takes the scorpion on his back, and braves the waters.

Halfway over feels a burning spear in his side and realizes the scorpion has stung him after all. And as they both sink beneath the waves the frog cries out, "Why did you sting me, Mr. Scorpion, for now we both will drown?" Scorpion replies, "I can't help it, it's in my nature."

Actually, several people have sent me this story and essentially this same comment.

When I receive comments like this, I seriously wonder whether anyone actually reads the articles on this blog.

My dear readers, the scorpion and frog story is the OLD way of thinking. It does not work anymore.

What does this story tell us? It tells us that there are people in this world who have a harmful nature, that they will never change, and that if we are compassionate to them and try to help them, they will sting us.

This is BULLSHIT.

This is exactly the kind of belief that we ALL need to clear out of our belief systems using Emotional Freedom Technique because, as long as we believe it, it will be a SELF-FULFILLING PROPHECY.

We will go around assuming we can't trust people, assuming the worst about people, and THAT is what we will deliver to ourselves. That is the picture we will continue to see.

You know what the real moral of the Frog and Scorpion story is? The frog and the scorpion had not radically forgiven each other yet.

The frog was playing innocent, "good" person and had not bothered to reach deep into his belief system and clear out whatever unconscious limiting beliefs, karma, and traumas gave rise to this situation. (Don't worry, Frog will have a chance to get this right in his next lifetime. We all get infinite chances to get this right. God is very patient.)

Conventional wisdom is to hear the frog story and become LESS TRUSTING.

Erika wisdom is to hear the frog story, find the roots of the negative outcome, clear them the f*** out, and become MORE TRUSTING.

The more trusting we become, not at a conscious level, but at a deeply UNCONSCIOUS level, the less we will have ANYTHING to fear in the world.

It is all perception. Nothing we see is real. We have absolute power to change our minds and thereby change the world we see.

Don't buy into the Frog/Scorpion bullshit. If you do, you will continue to be a slave in the Matrix, at the mercy of forces that seem to be beyond your control.

Practice radical forgiveness instead.

There are NO bad people. There are only people we have yet to forgive, at an UNCONSCIOUS level.

EFT works on the unconscious level. Practice EFT every day.

Allow yourself to let go of conventional wisdom and unforgiving beliefs.

Allow yourself to let go of your judgments and low expectations of others.

Watch the Scorpion turn into your savior before your eyes.

This work is about doing what formerly seemed impossible. This work is about creating miracles.

Why I don't worry about gossip, my "image," and other external things

I had an interesting conversation last night with a very well-known PUA. I respect him a lot and am very open to his ideas.

The conversation reminded me, however, just how radically different my approach is from nearly every other teacher in the community.

Some examples:

Several people recently have told me there is a lot of negative gossip about me in the community. Some told me in a protective way. Others told me in an attempt to create drama and get under my skin.

Gossip is not something I'm going to spend any energy on. I simply turn to these words from A Course in Miracles:

Nothing real can be threatened.
Nothing unreal exists.
Therein lies the peace of God.

The most attractive people in the world are internally guided. They do not concern themselves with other people's opinions of them and they do not judge others. Anyone who does something new in this world is a threat to the ego, but the ego is not real. The ego will bitch and complain for a while whenever one of its constructs is challenged, but ultimately the ego is powerless. It will fall away. So we persevere regardless of anyone's opinion of us.

Now, not caring about other people's opinions does NOT mean we don't care about the people. Compassion looks past the egoic nonsense and sees the human being underneath. That's how I see all the gossipers. I know gossiping doesn't help them and doesn't hurt me. They may or may not be at a point in their evolution to see that themselves, but I'm not going to concern myself with where they are in the evolution of their belief system. I'm simply going to love them and look past the crap.

Another example is that several people have told me that my talking about E. has helped him and his business. I don't know whether that is true or not, but people tell me that as if I should be upset about it.

Why would I be upset about that? I wish E. every bit of health, happiness, and success that I wish for myself. My intention has never been to harm him in any way, only to express my pain so that it could be healed and never again repeated. And that intention has been fulfilled. When I look into my heart now, I feel a huge amount of love for E. and am not able to get angry even if I try. It's as if the past has been erased, except for the sweet memories, and that was my intention here. Only that. I wanted to feel peaceful about it, and now I do. I hope he does as well.

Life becomes a lot easier when we are no longer concerned about things like gossip and our image, and when we are no longer concerned about our "ranking" compared to someone else. Comparison is an ego device. It will keep us perpetually enslaved, perpetually on the hamster wheel, if we allow that. What need have we to compare ourselves to others once we have fully accepted the spiritual equality of all beings?

On a regular basis now, I don't feel any need to do anything because I feel so good. Just today, I was washed over with wave after wave of what I can only describe as tantric energy, it feels like rush after rush of endorphins for no reason at all.

This is the state of bliss that my clients achieve too, if they commit to a long-term program with me. We resolve the negative karmic energy in the person's belief system, and once it's gone, it's gone forever, leaving bliss and peace in its place. Once a person has achieved this state, what is there in the outside world that could ever again be worth striving for? There is no void to fill, so striving falls away.

And yet, paradoxically, this is when we become the most attractive. When we stop striving, we start being. Being is presence. Presence is the essence of seduction.

"Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it."

My approach is dramatically different from what others are offering. Once you and I have worked together to clear out your internal barriers, you won't have to concern yourself with tactics and techniques. That stuff will all fall away, and you'll find that people are simply magnetized to you because you have become the essence of Love and what you can give has now become unlimited. You have become a fountain in the desert, and people will come to you for water to have the living force restored to them as well.

Anyway, we are having a wonderful time in Vegas so far. Stay tuned for some adventure stories ... :)

How Erika got her groove back :)

By expressing her truth fully, regardless of what others might think.

By allowing herself to have all of her feelings as they arise.

And it doesn't hurt that she's now en route to Vegas for four days of dancing and romancing ... and that she still gets carded on a regular basis, including just now at the airport wine bar :)

Vegas, here we come!!

Feeling deep sadness tonight

After anger clears, we get to what is really underneath all anger: grief.

As a blogger and a coach, I could sit here and pretend never to get sad. I could bombard you all with "positive thinking" all the time. But that's not what gets people healed. What gets people healed is feeling all of their emotions in all their fullness, without judging them.

People desperately need to be heard, exactly as they are, exactly where they are, without being told that they "should" feel something other than what they feel.

On that note,

I feel very deep grief tonight at the loss of a connection that was so precious to me. And lost why? Because of fear. Only that. Fear of going deeper. Fear of staying present with the feelings that were coming up. Fear of receiving from the Universe something so breaktakingly beautiful, and daring to imagine it could endure.

I feel tremendous grief about the lost opportunity. The lost connection. The misunderstandings. The pain inflicted on each other. The pain felt by the community.

I feel devastated that we turned away from each other's pain instead of sharing it and embracing it and honoring each other.

I feel sad at not having a chance to explore the tantra, the intimacy, the friendship, the possibilities for co-creation. I feel scared there won't be another opportunity. I feel scared I won't be able to open myself up to something like that again, or that even if I could, nothing quite that beautiful will ever come along again. I feel really scared I won't be able to be that vulnerable, that trusting, that open, ever again.

Very much crying right now. I've cried a lot over this. Only now though does it feel like I've come into the fullness of the grief.

The grief of the separation from him, from all our brothers and sisters, and from God.

Thought for the day ...

Our waking nightmares are no more real than our sleeping ones.

We need only wake up from them for them to be gone.

Sincere question for Sinn

Have you ever noticed that "scientific proof" has never been scientifically proven?

Time to open your mind, love.

Step out of the Matrix. :)

Humorous moments and ... Vegas, baby

Lol, I do love my life. I was sitting here minding my own business cuz we rescheduled my normal Monday evening 7 pm Emotional Freedom Technique session for another time (maybe in field ... :)

Listening to some Holosync gamma compassion tracks. Btw, this gamma track takes Holosync to a whole new level, and I urge you to start this meditation program if you haven't already -- here the link to another article I wrote about it.

Anyway, I'm minding my own business when ... totally out of the blue ... a text comes in ... offering a threesome. Right now. Lol :)

Too bad I have an 8:30 pm session.

Anyhoo, I also wanted to share my favorite text of the week:

"Baby, I'm going to fuck you so good that you won't even remember who Entropy is."

LMAO.

(But, awwww, just kidding. Everyone reach deep in their heart and send Entropy love too. Everyone gets a big helping of love. :)

Meanwhile, a huge number of my favorite men are gathering this week in Vegas for Johnny's workshop. I'll be flying in Wednesday night and staying through Sunday, so please get in touch with me if you're going to be there.

xoxo,
Erika

I'm not mad anymore ... what "radical forgiveness" really means

Yeah, I'm not mad at Entropy anymore :)

As for Sinn, I suggest that we all reach deep into our hearts and send him some love, cuz he needs it.

(Let me clarify right up front that I am not saying that in a "condescending" way. We all need love, and we especially need it when we lapse into judging people. I hope when I lapse into judgment that people will send me love too. Did you know that if a bunch of people collectively decide to send love to someone, that person can feel it?)

I realize there are those out there who may sometimes think I'm a little "crazy" or even "irresponsible." That's okay. I far prefer being a little "whatever" to being so-called "normal" (i.e., a slave in the Matrix).

But truthfully, there is a method to my madness. Everything I do on this blog, including my expression from time to time of intense anger, is part of a comprehensive system that I have developed over the past few years for transforming our lives radically and rapidly toward greater happiness and empowerment.

This is how to step out of the Matrix and into the paradise of the real world.

What is the real world? It is the world transformed before our eyes through radical forgiveness. It is the world purified of all anger, hate, sickness, conflict, and travesty of every kind.

Is this possible? You better believe it. It is inevitable. The world will be saved. And you can help, not by cleaning up the world, not by judging yourself or others, but by cleaning up YOUR mind. By cleansing your mind of judgments and destructive karmic patterns.

Everything we see begins and ends in our minds.

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Toward that end, let me share with you some foundational passages from A Course in Miracles that have deeply influenced my approach to coaching:

1. Fundamental Principle Number One: People who give pain do so only because they themselves are in pain.

This includes anyone and everyone who is in the habit of judging others, no matter how much of a "tough guy" facade they may be showing to the outside world. They are merely covering up their own pain.

Responding to attack with attack only perpetuates the cycle of pain. Thus, the first step is recognizing that all judgments and attack are really a "call for love." The correct response is not attack, but compassion.

The power of God is limitless. And, being always maximal, it offers everything to every call from anyone. There is no order here. A call for help is given help. The only judgment involved at all is in the Holy Spirit's one division into two categories; one of love, and the other, the call for love.

http://courseinmiracles.com/urtext/chapter_14/section_6.htm

2. Fundamental Principle Number Two: It is important to forgive AND forget.

To forgive is merely to remember only the loving thoughts you gave in the past, and those that were given you. All the rest must be forgotten.

http://www.courseinmiraclesforum.com/acimdi293a.html

3. Fundamental Principle Number Three: True forgiveness (what I call "radical forgiveness") changes the past and ensures a future unlike the past.

The past only exists in our interpretations. If forgiveness is deep enough, our interpretations of the past will change. If forgiveness is deep enough, also, whatever we perceived in the past that we did not like will *never* happen again. The entire karmic pattern has been erased from the mind.

Here is the foundational passage from ACIM:

Pardon is always justified. It has a sure foundation. You do not forgive the unforgivable, nor overlook a real attack that calls for punishment. Salvation does not lie in being asked to make unnatural responses which are inappropriate to what is real. Instead, it merely asks that you respond appropriately to what is not real by not perceiving what has not occurred. If pardon were unjustified, you would be asked to sacrifice your rights when you return forgiveness for attack. But you are merely asked to see forgiveness as the natural reaction to distress that rests on error, and thus calls for help. Forgiveness is the only sane response. It keeps your rights from being sacrificed.

This understanding is the only change that lets the real world rise to take the place of dreams of terror. Fear cannot arise unless attack is justified, and if it had a real foundation pardon would have none. The real world is achieved when you perceive the basis of forgiveness is quite real and fully justified. While you regard it as a gift unwarranted, it must uphold the guilt you would "forgive." Unjustified forgiveness is attack. And this is all the world can ever give. It pardons "sinners" sometimes, but remains aware that they have sinned. And so they do not merit the forgiveness that it gives.

This is the false forgiveness which the world employs to keep the sense of sin alive. And recognizing God is just, it seems impossible His pardon could be real. Thus is the fear of God the sure result of seeing pardon as unmerited. No one who sees himself as guilty can avoid the fear of God. But he is saved from this dilemma if he can forgive. The mind must think of its Creator as it looks upon itself. If you can see your brother merits pardon, you have learned forgiveness is your right as much as his. Nor will you think that God intends for you a fearful judgment that your brother does not merit. For it is the truth that you can merit neither more nor less than he.

http://www.thecourseinmiracles.com/text/chapter-30.html

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Hey everyone,

I just sent out my first official, official newsletter, which includes both an article about why it's so important to address our pain, and a special members-only offer for a discounted Emotional Freedom Technique (tapping) session.

It is my intention to start sending a lot of my more advanced content via newsletter rather than on the blog. The internet, while fun, can be a bit of a free for all at times. I'd like to create a more intimate newsletter community, where I can share deeper insights.

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